As a parent, it can be challenging to know when your child needs
professional help. You want to support them, but you’re not sure where to start.
Here are 7 red flag behaviors that indicate your child needs
immediate attention:
⚠️ Self-Harm or Self-Destructive Behaviors
Engaging in harmful behaviors, such as cutting or substance abuse.
⚠️ Expressing Hopelessness or Helplessness
Verbalizing feelings of despair, worthlessness, or suicidal thoughts.
⚠️ A Sudden Loss of Interest in Activities
Abruptly stopping participation in hobbies or activities they once
enjoyed.
⚠️ Increased Risk-Taking Behavior
Engaging in reckless or impulsive behavior, such as reckless driving or
unprotected sex.
⚠️ Dramatic Changes in Physical Appearance
Significant changes in weight, hygiene, or dress.
⚠️ Avoiding Social Interactions
⚠️ Withdrawing from friends, family, or social events.
⚠️Expressing Excessive Guilt or Shame. Verbalizing overwhelming feelings of guilt, shame, or self-blame.
What to Do Next
If you’ve noticed any of these behaviours in your child, seek immediate
help from:
- A mental health professional
- A professional counselor
Remember, you’re not alone. There are resources available to support
you and your child
_____________________________________ Olaide Akerele is a passionate seasoned Educator and Professional Counselor dedicated to creating memorable and educational experiences for students before and during their teenage years. She has several years of experience teaching and counselling children and teenagers in schools and programs. Working with organisations to cater to the academic, social, emotional and mental health of preteens and teenagers. Working with parents and teachers to understand the needs of teenagers so as to bring up a total child. She has a B.Ed in Guidance and Counseling from Ekiti State University, Professional certification in professional counseling from ADI-CCPN, a member of the African Network of Professional Counselors. A prolific writer and a Volunteer with Amani Health Inc. She possess excellent communication skills, the ability to create engaging sessions, leadership abilities, problem-solving skills, and a passion for working with children Instagram: @akereleolaide LinkedIn: Olaide Akerele olaideakerele2@gmail.com 08132621972
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